People talk. I listen. It's been a constant feature of my relationships with people. I remember wondering about this dynamic when I was younger, but now I just see it as a "given" and know that certain personality types just feel like it's easy to talk to me and will do so whether I'm in a frame of mind to listen or not.
I don't like that I can't trush Chuck to keep private information private. The fact that he has shared with me private information that other people didn't want me to know is proof enough that his loose lips could work against me at some point.
I went out with Drew tonight. It was very comfortable. I did not get a tension headache at any part during the night. I really wished I didn't have to goto work because I was happy laying on the couch with him and watching Terminator 3. I sit here pondering what type of body language and/or signals I gave off to him. Sometimes my guard can be up even when I think it's down.