Gay Pride Parade: My Response.

POST I READ: This is a straight persons perception I would really like to change and believe needs to change.

"By the way, why do GAYS have such NASTY PARADES? I have never seen a FAMILY RATED GAY PARADE. What's the deal on that? Do all GAYS like NASTY?"

My RESPOSE:
Aye... Having attended these "pride festivals" for 18years now, I'll say these things: There are families in attendance at each event. "Family friendly" need not be synonymous with "conservative friendly." We are not a single ethnic group, a cohesive political action committee, etc. We ARE a sub-culture of the modern, mainstream society which includes straight swingers, those engaged in BDSM, polygamy, monogamy, drinking beer on porch steps & sipping wine in the vineyards. Waving a rainbow flag, wearing short shorts and or assless chaps may not be my preferred way of showing pride, but I'm not embarrassed or ashamed of those that find comfort in it either. This is America last time I checked, where the Doo Dah Parade still takes place (heh) so a little levity with ourselves, please. And lastly, changing perceptions... If it is important to you...takes place by living your life openly & honestly, one day at a time and allowing everyday people to get to know to you & your relationships. Trust me, I've seen change since being 18 & afraid of some of those parade walkers myself. ;-)